Stop Comparing Callings: God Has a Unique Plan for You

It’s easy to look at someone else’s anointing and wonder, “Why them and not me?” But before you let jealousy take root, remember this: You have no idea what they went through to walk in God’s grace the way they do. You don’t know their battles, their sacrifices, or the level of obedience it took for them to step into their calling.

Many people desire to be used by God, but few are willing to endure the process required to carry the anointing. You cannot covet someone else’s calling if you haven’t walked in their shoes. Yes, you may have similarities, and they may even impart wisdom to you, but their anointing is uniquely theirs because their journey was uniquely theirs.

Anointing Longevity Doesn’t Dictate God’s Timing

Just because someone has been anointed longer than you doesn’t mean God will use them first—or in the way they expect. God’s timing and purpose are always intentional.

Take David, for example. He was anointed as a young shepherd boy, but it was years before he took the throne. Meanwhile, there are people like Joseph, who went from prison to the palace overnight (Genesis 41:14-41). In one moment, God raised Joseph to interpret Pharaoh’s dream, positioning him as second-in-command over Egypt. Joseph didn’t wait decades for his leadership—God accelerated his purpose at the appointed time.

This teaches us an important lesson: God’s timeline is not based on human expectations. Just because you’ve been waiting longer doesn’t mean someone newer to the faith won’t step into their calling before you. God raises people based on His divine plan, not on seniority.

What You’re Called to Do is Uniquely Yours

Your anointing is not a competition. Even if two people have similar gifts, God will use them in uniquely different ways.

For instance, let’s say there are two prophets in the same church. One may be called to minister directly to the church body—strengthening, correcting, and encouraging God’s people. The other may be called to influence government, speaking words of wisdom and prophecy to help shape leadership decisions that align with God’s will. Neither calling is more significant than the other. Both serve vital purposes but in different spheres of influence.

This is why jealousy is not only unnecessary but dangerous. When you covet someone else’s position, you’re rejecting the unique way God wants to use you. Comparison blinds you to your own purpose. Instead of longing for someone else’s platform, embrace your own.

Jealousy Led to Downfall in the Bible

Saul’s jealousy toward David is a prime example of how envy can destroy a person. Saul had once been chosen by God, but he lost his position due to disobedience (1 Samuel 15:23). Instead of repenting, he let jealousy consume him, spending his last years chasing David instead of fulfilling his own calling. His jealousy didn’t stop David from being blessed—it only hastened his own downfall.

Similarly, Miriam’s jealousy toward Moses led to her downfall. She failed to recognize that her role in Moses’ life—protecting him as a baby and placing him in the river—was an important part of God’s plan. Instead of rejoicing in how she had contributed to his destiny, she envied his position. As a result, God struck her with leprosy (Numbers 12:1-10).

Celebrate Others While Walking in Your Own Calling

There is no shortage of God’s power or purpose. He doesn’t run out of callings to give! Instead of resenting someone else’s anointing, focus on developing your own.

• Trust God’s timing—He knows when to raise you up.

• Accept that your journey will not look like someone else’s.

• Recognize that your gifts are just as valuable as anyone else’s.

• Be faithful where you are, and God will elevate you at the right time.

At the end of the day, we are all part of one body, serving different but equally important roles. Whether you’re called to lead in the church, impact the government, teach in schools, or raise godly families, your purpose is necessary. Walk in it with confidence, without jealousy, and in full obedience to God’s plan.

Because when you stay in your lane, God will take you exactly where you’re meant to be.